What happens if you have a stroke, and your spouse suffers from memory loss? She may not be able to make competent medical decisions on your behalf. Meanwhile, another trusted confidante in the healthcare industry might be better suited to facilitating decision making. Without a medical proxy, such an individual may be prohibited from getting medical information due to the 1996 HIPAA (
Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) law.
Unmarried couples might face additional hurdles despite a long-term relationship. Prior to updates in marriage laws, this was especially problematic for same-sex couples.
At the worst moment, crucial time may be lost trying to determine even simple things such as:
- who is your primary doctor is
- what are your standard prescriptions
- what does your health coverage include or exclude
Upon death, your estate will go through
probate. Without a will, probate court must perform fact-finding procedures related to determining your assets, liabilities, and relatives. The expense related to this effort is deducted from your estate before being distributed to your heirs.
When concluded, probate court might bequeath your estate to distant family members you did not know. Or it might pass to the state, rather than a charitable cause or a non-family, loved one you prefer. Avoid disputes or extended probate.
Two documents provide clarity about your preferences in sickness or death:
- A will simplifies probate by stating how you want your assets to be distributed upon death
- A health care proxy designates one or more individuals to make decisions on your behalf when you are medically unable to do so.
A will can stipulate directions for your funeral. It can also appoint an executor to follow your instructions related to your assets in a trust.
A trust allows another person (or entity) to hold your property per your instructions on behalf of your heirs. You may have beneficiaries with special needs or limited decision making – whether temporary or permanent. For example, minor children can benefit from this vehicle until they reach an age where they can make more informed or responsible decisions.
An estate plan is the combination of a will (or trust) and healthcare proxy coupled with bestowing power of attorney for your designated beneficiaries. You can grant such authority to different individuals for different tasks. For example, you might grant healthcare directives to your daughter, the doctor, while choosing your son, the CPA, as your financial proxy.
An estate plan might include insurance products or annuities to help reduce taxes, fees or parse out living expenses. There are other distinctions to evaluate such as:
- a living trust versus a will
- revocable versus irrevocable trust
- temporary versus permanent power of attorney
- whether your documents are kept private or publicly recorded
This article is not legal advice, and it is not comprehensive. Rather, it is meant to provide background information. By highlighting certain concepts our intention is that you ask better questions related to finding trusted advisors to help you plan your future medical care, dependent care, and asset distribution.